Sure, you might prefer to segregate your men by HIV status.But if you’re engaged in casual sex or even active in the dating pool, making assumptions can be a fool’s errand. To stay negative, or keep your HIV virus to yourself, the power is in your hands.In one of the bright spots of the new year, 2015, the HIV status of the guy you’re dying to get into bed matters less than ever.And if you play your sexual cards right, his status doesn’t really matter much at all.When it comes to HIV, those labels are beginning to fade. Welcome to the new Cam Skip, the ultimate random cam chat site.We’ll save you the lecture about the perils of labeling people and simply say this: the best laid plans often go astray, particularly when true love shows up. Here are five reasons why his HIV status just isn’t the point anymore: 1. Until you know the guy, and we mean more than his sexual statistics and where he works out, you’re going to have to demonstrate to him what a creative lover you are without high risk sex.Use a condom for fucking or drive him over the edge with oral sex.
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Of course, there’s no rule keeping you from continuing to use condoms regardless. Of course, you have to know him well enough to feel comfortable that he is taking his meds as prescribed. That’s not the case for more common infections like gonorrhea, chlamydia and herpes, which you can catch through oral sex or simple contact with skin during an outbreak. Likewise, if he is HIV-positive but hasn’t sought treatment because he says he feels great or doesn’t believe in taking pills, we have a problem. If you do not take advantage of them you might as well be living in 1987.
With the staggeringly high rate of sexually transmitted diseases among gay men these days, don’t over-estimate your HIV risk and under-estimate the others. Ask anyone who made it out of that decade alive and they will tell you it was not pretty.
As long as you stay in the safety lane, his HIV status is irrelevant. Pre-exposure prophylaxis (taking a pill to prevent HIV infection) is fast becoming a game changer for gay men on the scene. We take our eyes off the other balling bugs when we forget that HIV isn’t the only sexually transmitted disease. Very Soon and he admits his last HIV test was before the final season of , you may want to think twice.
Once you know and trust each other more you can negotiate the best of the rest. There’s a growing pile of research to show that Pr EP has an efficacy rate that rivals condoms, and can give you some peace of mind when his status is a question mark. Another major development of the last year has been the growing research showing that someone living with HIV that maintains an undetectable viral load is not capable of transmitting the virus to their partners. In fact, among the various ways you can get infections from boinking, HIV is relatively hard to transmit because it requires bodily fluids (blood, semen, or a mother’s breast milk) to enter your blood stream through an open wound or through mucus membrane (the booty canal). Our sexual health depends on our getting tested regularly and addressing the results.
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